I'm sorry, smashvids.

[LinksDarkArrows]

DISCLAIMER: You guys know i don't normally go around screwing with people's "reputations." I personally belive that Phazon should be gotten rid of. I gave him time to improve, and he hasn't shown much improvement. Please think of all the factors and read the entire post before you jump to any conclusions.

Usually I've always been real easy to contact, but now that will no longer be. Phazon pushed some rather serious buttons which forces me to impliment a private buddy list for everything. I'll still be pretty easy to contact, but it will first have to be arranged. Now I know that most of you are on my list already, so this is just for those that I've never talked to.

anyways. I encourage you guys to just stop talking to Phazon all together. Below are some things taken from the message window when I was talking to him:

Over a month ago I tried telling him that dolphins are intelligent. He didn't believe this. So I send him four websites proving to him that they are, but he still insists that I was wrong. Now.. that's not the part that annoys me. This was finished well over a month ago and he keeps brining it up like it's nothing. Once again, it doesn't bother me, it's just really, really annoying.

LinksDarkArrows (9:22:17 AM): 50+ can also be 50 "and" above.
PhazonN (9:22:30 AM): you didn't mean it like that =p
PhazonN (9:22:44 AM): dolphins are stupid and tasty
PhazonN (9:23:10 AM): am bored

LinksDarkArrows (9:31:01 AM): There's a difference between liking one Pokemon and liking the series.
PhazonN (9:31:09 AM): no there isn't
PhazonN (9:31:13 AM): you're wrong
PhazonN (9:31:19 AM): just like you were wrong about dolphins
PhazonN (9:31:48 AM): anyway

\/ Keep in mind I said NOTHING about dolphins \/

LinksDarkArrows (9:37:00 AM): I refuse to fall into your wimp trap.
PhazonN (9:37:07 AM): what the hell are you talking about?
PhazonN (9:37:20 AM): i agree that dolphins are stupid
PhazonN (9:37:27 AM): but this is completely off topic

Ok. I think that covers that part. Since dolphins aren't really my big issue. The next one is what he seems to enjoy saying about my Mom... He's done this a few times in the past. And for one, I hate it. I think it's very wrong to talk about someone else's Mom. No one will ever care for you like your Mom does. he also says it's his "m8," but I highly doubt that his friend and him will switch that fast. And even if IS his friend, I don't want to be caught in this random "ur mom s3x lol" cross fire whenever he so pleases.

PhazonN (8:08:15 AM): this is his m8 who is tlkin nw the 1 that called u and i still think u r gay n ur mums is so good u should tell ur dad
PhazonN (8:08:24 AM): if it int broke dun fix it gayboy
LinksDarkArrows (8:08:25 AM): You know.
LinksDarkArrows (8:08:34 AM): I find it highly disturbing that you enjoy having sex with people over 40.
LinksDarkArrows (8:08:39 AM): That's wrong.
LinksDarkArrows (8:08:42 AM): Which makes you an immoral person.
PhazonN (8:08:47 AM): bit a milf mate

Here is where I seal the deal. Please note that I told him off once for being an idiot in the past. That's where the child message comes from. This is talking a bit about Pokemon. I mainly copied the part that he started up again. Trust me, I did nothing to provoke this, I simply explained that I no longer like Pokemon anymore.

LinksDarkArrows (8:12:39 AM): Story line IS the game.
LinksDarkArrows (8:12:47 AM): If you're into action.
PhazonN (8:12:52 AM): shut up
LinksDarkArrows (8:12:52 AM): You're better off wasting money on the PS3.
PhazonN (8:12:55 AM): you're being stupid
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:00 AM): I'm not being dumb.
PhazonN (8:13:01 AM): no
PhazonN (8:13:02 AM): no
PhazonN (8:13:03 AM): no
PhazonN (8:13:04 AM): no
PhazonN (8:13:04 AM): no
PhazonN (8:13:04 AM): no
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:05 AM): I just believe that Pokemon is dumb to me.
PhazonN (8:13:05 AM): n
PhazonN (8:13:05 AM): on
PhazonN (8:13:07 AM): n00n
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:08 AM): You know what.
PhazonN (8:13:08 AM): n90v0b
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:09 AM): **** you.
PhazonN (8:13:09 AM): nb9nb
PhazonN (8:13:10 AM): sdfg
PhazonN (8:13:10 AM): fd
PhazonN (8:13:11 AM): dsa
PhazonN (8:13:11 AM): sfd
PhazonN (8:13:11 AM): s
PhazonN (8:13:14 AM): oh no
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:16 AM): You call me a "child"
PhazonN (8:13:18 AM): naughty word
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:22 AM): And you're the one parading around like a dip****.
PhazonN (8:13:23 AM): yeah you are
PhazonN (8:13:29 AM): cuz you make no sense
PhazonN (8:13:35 AM): i dun wanna waste time with you
PhazonN (8:13:37 AM): f*g**t
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:37 AM): I make perfect sense.
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:40 AM): I just don't like Pokemon.
LinksDarkArrows (8:13:45 AM): And you REFUSE to accept that fact.
PhazonN (8:13:50 AM): bellend
PhazonN signed off at 8:13:59 AM.

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In conclusion. This has been going on for over 4 DAYS. Or at least the seriously annoying part has. He had is moments like we all do, even me. But seriosuly, do we really need to talk to someone who just wants to be like this all the time? Take this for what you will, I'm just trying to avoid you guys from being screwed over/annoyed as much as I am right now. Please don't hate me for this.

DISCLAIMER 2: I am not perfect. But I do reserve the right to pick on his status because he constantly brings up things that i never do. I have never, EVER told anyone that I would like to sleep with their Mom, bring up an argument that was finished over a month in the past, or went off to make idiotic claims to make someone mad, then get angry and claim that you are the bigger person after antagonization someone for over 4 days. I may be a jerk sometimes, but i have respect, which is something that Phazon doesn't have.

[Phazon]

I was just messing about. I got offensive when you started swearing at me.

One of those wasn't me it was my mate.

I don't see why I should get banned. What do I do wrong on smashvids?

You should have known by the way it was written which one wasn't me.

I did nothing uncalled for.

Baby.

[Phazon]

And btw LDA..

Sending one of your friends to be a jerk on aim and blocking me is pretty pathetic..

[LinksDarkArrows]

I was just messing about.

Excuse me? You were at this for days. It should have been clear enough that it was an annoyance that I didn't take kindly to.

I got offensive when you started swearing at me.

You antaganize me for over 4 days about the same stuff and expect me to not retaliate in any way? I waited patiently for your crap to die down. It didn't.

I don't see why I should get banned. What do I do wrong on smashvids?

I never said that you should get banned. I simply warned others about how much you enjoy screwing with people.

You should have known by the way it was written which one wasn't me.

In the end, this is still your fault. If that is so, it's your job to control your idiotic friends.

Baby.

Baby? Let me remind you again that I put up with this for a long time AND dropped hints here and there that I was sick of it. If your main goal was to get me to retaliate, your main goal was acomplished. I can easily move on without any conflict. Please direct all of your "childish" comments (not calling you childish, [before you jump all over that one] just the comments you make) against that brick wall to the right. ->

here's an example word of what would you would tell Mr. Brickwall: Baby.

[Phazon]

It's hard for me to stop him when i'm not in the room..

At no point over the last 2 days, not 4. My internet was gone and only returned yesterday. Did you say to me that I was annoying you.

Calling my comments childish is an ovious shot at me. And I wasn't childish. You are seriously over reacting.

You're the only guy who reacts this badly to me saying dolphins are stupid. I thought you didn't care what I thought. Yet it seems to me that you did. Once again, you never told me to stop..

And, "I personally belive that Phazon should be gotten rid of.". What did you expect me to think of this? This clearly states that I should be removed. And where else could you be refering to?

[Sword of Seals]

@ Phazon :

Your Friends seem to be causing the most damage to your reputation of being a nice person to talk to. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against you, But I certainly have something against your friends.

I'm shocked that they are still at this. You need to stop them. As soon as Possible.

When they come over in Future, Maybe you could sign off AIM and not use it until they leave. It seems that whenever you leave the room, They start Trouble with all the people in your buddy list. They are taking the P*ss with you and other people. And its not fair on you, and everyone else on your buddy list.

Or perhaps you could discard them from your life? If I had friends like that, they would be out of my life within seconds.

I have nothing against you, what so ever. But your friends are being a***holes who need to be sorted out.

If you don't sort this out soon, They may turn everyone against you. Talking about having sex with peoples mum's is sickening. And what they said to me wasn't pleasant at all...

[LinksDarkArrows]

And btw LDA..

Sending one of your friends to be a jerk on aim and blocking me is pretty pathetic..

I never sent anyone after you.

At no point over the last 2 days, not 4. My internet was gone and only returned yesterday. Did you say to me that I was annoying you.

I implied it. Very well actually. I would even completely forget about some of your comments in hopes that it would eventually go away. It just kept coming. What exactly is that supposed to tell me? It tells me that you were just being careless.

Calling my comments childish is an ovious shot at me. And I wasn't childish. You are seriously over reacting.

your constant antaganization could have triggerd this.

You're the only guy who reacts this badly to me saying dolphins are stupid. I thought you didn't care what I thought. Yet it seems to me that you did. Once again, you never told me to stop..

I know this will be hard for you, but think hard. After your dolphin comments, I said ABSOLUTELY NOTHING in the window. You're the one that brings up random fights like that from the past. Between that, you trying to say that I have sex with Pikachu dolls and apparently wanting to do it with a 40 her old person, how am I NOT going to take it a whole when the crap just kept on coming without rest? I shouldn't have to say stop. You should have enough common sense to know when you pushed the bar too high.

And, "I personally belive that Phazon should be gotten rid of.". What did you expect me to think of this? This clearly states that I should be removed. And where else could you be refering to?

Gotten rid of from lists (That's buddy lists... I feel that I should explain this before you start to mention something that's completely unrelated) to avoid your stupid friend or your psychotic dual personality issues.

You can point at me all you want. But I wasn't the one parading around like a jackass for a few days pecking at the same subjects.

[Phazon]

I don't wanna argue. And i've got thick skin so you can insult me all you like..

[Arthur42Dent]

Dolphins are intelligent, they are in fact the 2nd most intelligent specie on earth. The 3rd most intelligent are humans, I think you deserve to know the truth Even do you can't handle it Phazon. If you think I,m lying, read the complete The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy quintet.

This was the 1st the day at school for me, it's nice to see my classmates. God bless Bærum, I will continue my patriotic campaign.

[Phazon]

Isn't that a comedy? >_>

[stelzig]

Don't you guys just love the internetz? =]

[Treklink256]

stelzig said:

Don't you guys just love the internetz? =]

**exalts** XD

@ Phazon & LDA: GROW UP.

[eat moar asparagus]

I officially hijack this topic and turn it into a ice cream party ^^

<3 LDA and Phazon

[LinksDarkArrows]

treklink256 said:

stelzig said:

Don't you guys just love the internetz? =]

**exalts** XD

@ Phazon & LDA: GROW UP.

I'm sorry to bring back an old topic, but weren't you the one getting really mad about your username being typed out wrong. =p

I'll admit that I may have some room to grow up, but I use the Internet as an escape 95% of the time. I don't take kindly to someone who's willing to throw a brick in my plan. <_< But this does not make me exempt from the things that I've started in the past. What Phazon (or his friend <_<) did just didn't stop. I believe that a person should at least know when to quit. Or Phazon just needs to drop this idiotic friend like we've discussed in the past. Sure, it might not have been the "adult" choice in life. But if Phazon wants this adult kick out of me about his dumb friend, then he needs to do the adult thing and control his friend. I do believe that it's only fair.

Don't you guys just love the internetz? =]

<3 Stelzig. Off topic a bit: I may get a new DS in a few months. Care for a few more wins on Mairo Kart?

I officially hijack this topic and turn it into a ice cream party ^^

Have fun with your Ice Cream party. <_< I'll just eat something else.

[蹴飛冥]

These kind of topics make me feel like a bad moderator... I mean, do I lock the topic? Do I leave it open and say that I agree with LDA, even though in doing so I would feel like I'm backstabbing other board members? Do I just ignore the topic and pretend I spend all my time in the strategy/video discussion forum?

Well, I will say that I do understand the reason for LDA's frustration. If that happened to me I would be angry too. It is abuse, and here in America, abuse of any kind is not tolerable.

However, there are probably better ways to handle abuse than to make this topic. Phazon may have lost all of LDA's respect, and it may have been replaced by a bubbling hatred, and there is nothing wrong with that. But in Phazon's defense, he doesn't deserve to lose respect among the whole smashvids community. People make mistakes, and maybe to LDA, this mistake is unforgivable; but we can only hope that this will be a learning experience to Phazon, he will shape up, and to his future contacts he can have a better experience. But the point is to let those future contacts of his go into the relationship unbiased, and a topic like this will either cause the reader to become biased towards either Phazon or LDA.

In LDA's defense: This topic was most likely neccesary for venting out his frustrations. Some people do take internet abuse seriously, and LDA didn't want to go any longer without holding in his emotions, the result being this topic.

I just want to ask of everyone to not judge either LDA or Phazon from this incident. We are all people, we are all multi-dimensional. There may forever be a conflict between Phazon and LDA. But you can't let that sway your opinions on either one of them.

And to LDA: I hope this post came across how I meant it to, and that you understand my perspective and that you don't hate me for it.

As a final note: I cannot moderate anything other than this board; but while on this board, abuse is a serious issue, and if individual members are harassing other members, action will be taken.

Lastly, dolphins are very intelligent.

[LinksDarkArrows]

And to LDA: I hope this post came across how I meant it to, and that you understand my perspective and that you don't hate me for it.

It did, and I don't hate you for your view on this whole ordeal.

I would also like to point out that a few of you know that I can almost never get a day of peace at home. I'm sure that Phazon knew this when the "abuse" wouldn't stop. Sometimes I just am pushed to the breaking point in life because I haven't been offered any real break from anything in almost 3 years now. (That's why you guys are so awesome. <3) I'm up for joking around as much as the next person, (Lawl, Dr. Mario) but as you can clearly see that what Phazon did at the end (It doesn't bother me. It's just really, really annoying. It's one of those small things that's no big deal, but is more than enough to finish it off <_<) was clearly uncalled for. At that point he was literally impossible to talk to. And I did do the "adult" thing by waiting for him to stop.

However, there are probably better ways to handle abuse than to make this topic.

There may have been, but he wasn't open to any reason in the message window after a certain point.

Even though this is mostly over... I would like to point out that the other day he literally WAS trying to get me to say that I hated him. He's been pusing it since then.

[stelzig]

"<3 Stelzig. Off topic a bit: I may get a new DS in a few months. Care for a few more wins on Mairo Kart?"

In a few months? xD
Maybe, but i haven't played mkds in a while (last time i played was with zgetto at RoS4)

[jacob!]

From the sounds of it, Phazon was a pain in the ass. He does that to me too sometimes. And LDA, however annoying he might have been, I think no one really wanted you to make him the black sheep in the community. And by warning us how annoying he is you do so. Maybe you could've blocked him and tell it somewhere without making a gigantic topic so everyone would know? >_>

Now, start making terrible jokes again, which is what I like you for.

zalts someone*

[Treklink256]

linksdarkarrows said:

I'm sorry to bring back an old topic, but weren't you the one getting really mad about your username being typed out wrong. =p

I'll admit that I may have some room to grow up, but I use the Internet as an escape 95% of the time. I don't take kindly to someone who's willing to throw a brick in my plan. <_< But this does not make me exempt from the things that I've started in the past. What Phazon (or his friend <_<) did just didn't stop. I believe that a person should at least know when to quit. Or Phazon just needs to drop this idiotic friend like we've discussed in the past. Sure, it might not have been the "adult" choice in life. But if Phazon wants this adult kick out of me about his dumb friend, then he needs to do the adult thing and control his friend. I do believe that it's only fair.

If you're talking about what I think you're talking about, no, that's not why I was mad. I was already pissed off to begin with, and what she said about my username just pushed me over the edge a little. We all overreact from time to time. Both of us have long since moved on from that incident, and I think it's about time you did, too. I hope you don't bring it up again.

As for Phazon. I see exactly why what he did irritates you so much. I'm pissed off at him just from reading your post. But the thing that disturbs me is that based on what I'm reading, you're giving him EXACTLY the reaction he wants. He's trying to make you mad, and it's working. Deny him the reaction that he seeks, and he'll have no reason to keep being a jerk. Talk to the hand, cause the buttox ain't listening.

I know that's a lot easier said than done sometimes. But sometimes you just have to know when to be the bigger man and just walk away.

@ Phazon: Dolphins are intelligent. Deal with it.

And if it was indeed your friend that was being sick, then you need to make it VERY clear to your friends that they need to respect your property, including your computer, and that any violations of that respect WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.

Just out of curiosity, does your friend spend much time chatting on IMs and message boards? If not, then it's possible he was just trying to pull a funny prank, and simply was too naive to realize the seriousness of the act he has committed. If he does, though, and if he is aware of the seriousness of what he has done, then... well, I'm not going to tell you who you can and cannot be friends with. But any friendship requires mutual respect of one another, and that includes each other's property. And if someone cannot respect me and my property, then I'd have to ask myself, are they truly my friend to begin with?

So, LDA, if all else fails, and he won't listen to reason, ignore him. He knows it bothers you now, and he probably won't let up easily. But if you insist on being the bigger man by not falling into his trap, then he will eventually go away. And Phazon, try acting like a decent human being, and treating others like decent human beings, and perhaps they'll return the behavior in kind.

Grow up. Both of you.

[eat moar asparagus]

^_;

*contradicting face*

vanilla anyone?

OT: I like talking to phazon hes phunny

and he's told me about his "friends" before and they do some very horrid things to him, which i shall not mention =(

[LinksDarkArrows]

Now, start making terrible jokes again, which is what I like you for.

What kind of funny? The cynical humor that pops out every now and then, or the jokes that kill topics?

Both of us have long since moved on from that incident, and I think it's about time you did, too. I hope you don't bring it up again.

I have moved on from it. Did I mislead you somehow? =( I was just trying to compare that to this (and what you said) in a way it can be discussed without it being rekindled.

But the thing that disturbs me is that based on what I'm reading, you're giving him EXACTLY the reaction he wants.

I'm not at all worried about giving him the exact response that he desires. He can take this topic any way he desires.

But sometimes you just have to know when to be the bigger man and just walk away.

As stated before, that's exactly what I made an effort to do. Those messages were going on for almost an hour before I put a stop to it. (and that's just that day) Ignoring it clearly does nothing, and it never will. Sorry to bust that idea, but it's pretty much proven that ignoring will do nothing most of the time. What I pulled from the message window wasn't even half.

OT: I like talking to phazon hes phunny

Seriously, lalala. We REALLY need to bring you down to reality.

I'll start...

Lesson 1: Smash is a secret cult. We don't tell the newest members becuase we're afraid they may leave. Now it's your turn to learn... Every thursday, Ken sacrafices a virgin for the smash gods so they will once again be pleased. Glad to see you're with us. =)

[jacob!]

yay LDA's making terribly bad jokes =]

<3 LDA and Phazon.

[Treklink256]

linksdarkarrows said:

I'm not at all worried about giving him the exact response that he desires.

Which is why this hasn't ended.

linksdarkarrows said:

As stated before, that's exactly what I made an effort to do. Those messages were going on for almost an hour before I put a stop to it. (and that's just that day) Ignoring it clearly does nothing, and it never will. Sorry to bust that idea, but it's pretty much proven that ignoring will do nothing most of the time. What I pulled from the message window wasn't even half.

An hour? You call that a long time? Can't you just block his IMs for a few days or until he decides to behave again?

linksdarkarrows said:

Lesson 1: Smash is a secret cult. We don't tell the newest members becuase we're afraid they may leave. Now it's your turn to learn... Every thursday, Ken sacrafices a virgin for the smash gods so they will once again be pleased. Glad to see you're with us. =)

Hrm... so that's how he always wins those tourneys...

[LinksDarkArrows]

An hour? You call that a long time? Can't you just block his IMs for a few days or until he decides to behave again?

Please remember that I said this was going a few days before, and the Mom comments go back as far as a few weeks.

[eat moar asparagus]

LDA, your jokes are just


nutty XD

<3

maybe I should have hijacked this topic into a grocery store D=

OT again: has phazon been on AIM in the past few days? I havent been on aim DX

*exalts treklink for no apparent reason*

[Nintendude1189]

I just skimmed the topic since I'm tight on time, but all I have to say is I shouldn't extend moderator powers beyond the forum. If someone wants to be a jerk on AIM then whatever.

If you have issues with someone then hit the block button and voila problem solved.

[Phazon]

LDA - A little late, but i'm sorry. You didn't deserve to be talked to like that, no matter who it was coming from. And I don't know if you visit this site anymore and if you'll pay this any mind, and I don't expect you to forgive me or unblock me or anything that you don't want to, but I just wanted it to be known that I really am sorry for what I said to you.

[nevake]

If you want to really get off of his blocked list, all you have to do is confess your infatuation with jigglypuff and how you have gone so far as to have a jigglypuff body pillow. 100% guaranteed success rate.

[Phazon]

YES! And i'm also going to bake him a giant Jigglypuff cake! Bigger than when Jiggs has a FS on a 2,000,000 inch TV!

..And everyone gets a piece.